Too often we are bombarded in this world with stories of tragedy, misery, and broken hearts. Missionaries leave with high hopes that their one true love will wait, lovingly, patiently, for two long, long years, but then end up getting something regretfully and emphatically known as the infamous "Dear John". It's sad. It's horrible. It kills dreams and hopes for a happy future. And it happens every day.
This is a real issue, everyone! We can't have our missionary men out on the front lines in the field-who already are facing enormous challenges from the foe- suddenly doused with another earth shattering disappointment caused by broken promises. The casualties of heart are not to be taken lightly. Our warriors of God laboring every second of every day to save souls should NOT have to worry their precious hearts with thoughts doubting the loyalty of women. I say, NO MORE!
There are only two main methods of helping fix this ever increasing problem (Just kidding. There are probably tons of ways to help missionaries in the field deal with girls back home. And hey, everyone's situation is different, and I totally get that. You do what's best for your situation! But for the purposes of this blog, these are the main two).
#1: Missionaries should not have girlfriends before they leave.
OR
#2: Girlfriends should actually wait. Specifically meaning, to not go get engaged. Yeah?
The good news is, as often as we do hear the classic "Dear John" scenario, these are not always the case.
Yes, sometimes they do wait. And sometimes it works out. And it is all in the timing and will of the Lord. And it is like a dream come true.
And sometimes it is way better for the girl to marry a different guy. So it really just depends.
But one thing is for sure: we need to support our missionaries in whatever way is best!
One other thing is for sure, anyone waiting for a missionary should take this advice:
And, sometimes, with the Lord's timing, life can go from this:
To This:
Just trust in the Lord. That's the key. :)
So, whether you're waiting for a missionary or not, it doesn't matter. Right now you are waiting and preparing for your future husband and future family. You won't get this chance again! Make this time count through doing what the Lord desires of you. As you are preparing so is he. So, as it turns out, the most wonderful account of the reuniting of a stellar missionary and his beautiful lover in waiting could possibly be your own. And the waiting will definitely pay off. Ask anyone who married a future missionary and they will tell you the same thing: -these amazing Sons of God are worth the wait!
Best of luck finding the one. :) He's out there somewhere! :)
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